Impoliteness? The best way to describe impoliteness is rude or bad manners. Until today you can see impoliteness every where at any age but we don't even know when this impoliteness was born. Logically, impoliteness exists when people was born, its just time that matters until we began to worried about impoliteness among youth. This is happening because the world is too advanced, parents start to spoil their kids, developing technologies, association and examples among the adults.
Impoliteness can be happen in any way, such as speech and behaviours. Rude ways of speaking include inappropriately discouraging person's participation in a conversation with impolite phrases, such as "shut up" or using a tone of voice that indicates disrespect for the other person. Sometimes sarcasm is one way can lead to impoliteness. People nowdays use 'sarcasm' as a way to talk to to impress people or as a friendly talk or a joke. However, it can be hurtful and impolite or harsh. Because among our youth these days, if you cannot deal with sarcasm you'll be pushed away or will be considered to be conservative or "Loser". But, they just didn't realise how impolite they could be. Anyway, have you heard of BBM? Whatsapp? Facebook? Twitter? WeChat? Yes...... Social networking. It has been kind of things that people cannot live without. As the gadgets have been very progressive, so the social networking. Communications, news, business and more. Well, that is good for ourselves, it make our life much easier. Unfortunately, it affected our young generation, the "impoliteness" happens. Through this social networking website, they are able to stalk and mock someone without the person knowing. They used coarse language which is very rude and very impolite and quarrel among themselves over politics. Its like they are creating a haters community. Moreover, as they wonted in the 'impolite social network' environment, automatically they loss of respect to other people at any age, either they are older or younger. For example, the issue of "Bini Mat Yo" that have been spreading widely over Malaysia through Youtube. There's a lot of feedback regarding this issue and there's a lot of parody made by our youngsters.
Other than that, parents and family is part of the attitude problem. Well, either biological parents or under custody by family members or not, Parenting is the way to raise a child. Parenting is the process of promoting and supporting the physical, emotional, social and intellectual development of a child from infancy to adulthood. So, when the parenting goes wrong, the child will grew up with the bad attitude. As simple as that. Parents should aware of their own children. For a real example, it literally happen to our friends neighbour. We don't know much but we saw and heard everyday. There's a big family lives next to our friends house, which two married couple with their TEN CHILDREN ! Amazing and such a big family, very noisy. Its very sweet, however, the way they treat their children is very poor manners. They shout to each other instead of talking. It affected their kids attitude. Every single day they shout and yell. It is very disturbing.
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